Personal Development Coaching BS: Signs your Coach is incompetent

Today I received one of these invites again: “Join the biggest list building event of the year.” Hundreds of personal development coaching people group together to collect as many email addresses as they can. While it is understandable that we want the chance to speak to YOU, it should always be done in style. And with style, I mean: from the point of a Coach who wants to help people – not from the point of a marketing ninja who wants to sell as many products as possible. Coach or Marketing expert? Every coach can tell you that this event doesn’t have any benefit for participants. It works as follows:… Read More

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How to make a difficult decision

    Very difficult decisions Sometimes we are at a crossroad in our life where we have to make a difficult decision. Should I start my own business or stay where I am? Do I want a baby or focus on my career? Should I cut the salary of all employees or fire 10 people? Do I stay in my unhappy relationship for the kids? Did you know that there is a simple hack to make difficult decisions easy? How to make difficult decisions easy Let’s start with the why: Why are some decisions difficult to make? The answer is surprisingly simple. Difficult decisions are difficult because no alternative seems better… Read More

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Happiness in the NOW – Mindfulness

The hunt for happiness Do you remember how your stomach tickled when you bought your first house? Went out with the Lady of your Heart/Prince for the first time? Our hearts beat faster when something we have been longing for finally becomes reality. Nothing stands between you and ultimate happiness anymore. The extraordinary becomes commonness There comes a point where dreams lose its glamor. The new house or friend are still important – but not the priority anymore. The special becomes commonness. It does not happen overnight. It is a creeping development. Why does happiness not last? As soon as a need has been fulfilled, it´s importance changes. If we… Read More

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How To Make More Money (Realist Version)

Making more money is simple Money is the green we all are following. It buys us freedom, health, beautiful things, and a comfortable life. While not everything you can do to help others has a price tag, even helping others can become easier when you´re financially comfortable. Those green Benjamins are a currency. In former times, people have exchanged goods to trade for services or other products. In some countries, I believe, you can still buy a wife with camels. Why people fail to make more money What if I tell you that it´s pretty simple to understand how to make more money, even though there are rarely shortcuts? We… Read More

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How to overcome fear and doubt

  Eliminate success blockers! Fear and Doubts come in many forms. The fear of failure, the fear of success. We feel overwhelmed. We all know that we have to set goals. Setting goals is one thing – reaching them is something else. How our brain works Now, the way our brain – that fascinating, mysterious organ – works is: It is really, really good at getting us what we want. It is not good at understanding negations. It is funny how the organ bearing our intellect and intelligence is pretty simple when it comes to linguistic. Our brain does EXACTLY what we tell him If we sit down and write… Read More

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