How to make a difficult decision

    Very difficult decisions Sometimes we are at a crossroad in our life where we have to make a difficult decision. Should I start my own business or stay where I am? Do I want a baby or focus on my career? Should I cut the¬†salary of all employees or fire 10 people? Do I stay in my unhappy relationship for the kids? Did you know that there is a simple hack to make difficult decisions easy? How to make difficult decisions easy Let’s start with the why: Why are some decisions difficult to make? The answer is surprisingly simple. Difficult decisions are difficult because no alternative seems better… Read More

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Positive vs. negative Motivation

Why positive motivation is better for your brain I just scrolled through my LinkedIn news feed and noticed plenty of negative quotes. You find them on all social networking sites.  Motivation is the sum of motives for our readiness to act which means our pursuit of goals or targets based on emotional and neuronal activity.  Today we will not look at the topic in its complexity, but just pick out one factor constantly in front of our eyes. We will neither look at sources for motivation nor different models. “Negative motivation” can be defined as something we do out of fear or to avoid certain consequences, but we will further… Read More

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8 Hacks For More Confidence

Confidence is self-trust. How far we trust ourselves decides about our results. A former trainer of mine, Lester Karrass, famously said: “In business and in life – you don’t get what you deserve, you get what you negotiate.” The less faith you have in yourself, the weaker will you negotiate. You will settle for little. We ask for what we feel we are worth. People who lack confidence will neither ask nor get much from life. I put together for your 8 simple tips that allow you to increase your confidence and start re-negotiating with life. I will admit that the “simple tips” are a comprehensive collection of self-growth exercises. “Comprehensive… Read More

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8 Best Tips For Introverts

Extroverts benefit from these tips too! It’s difficult to be an introvert. Often it seems as if the surest way to be the center of attention is trying to avoid it. Most of our interests, character traits and likes have developed during our childhood. Our family, friends, our profession, and setbacks and failure – all of that influenced who we became and what is important to us. While you can change the color of your hair with some dye, the same does not apply to personality traits, for instance, introversion and extroversion. Introvert, extrovert, ambivert The third category is ambiverts (like myself). Introverted people are quiet while extroverted people are “loud”… Read More

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